I have a MAJOR problem right now and I just about worked myself sick about it. I don't know what to do and I need serious advice/help.
Ok here it goes......
So I have been boarding Phantom at my friend's (the one who yells at me in the videos) for 4.5 years now and they let me board for free as long as I pay farrier, worming, and treats once in a while. Everything has been fine until recently. Their landlord has been being a real @$$**** the passed 2 -3 years about everything. They now have the money to move which is great im happy for them. So the passed year they have been looking at houses in their area and today I went with them to see one...i was thinking oh it will be like the others I went with them to see. Well we got there and they fell in love with it.......LITERALLY HEAD OVER HEELS IN LOVE with the place. So they are really considering it. Im happy they found a place but the thing is Phantom is already 40 mins away from me which sucks but this place that they are most likely going to get is AN HOUR AND A HALF AWAY!!!! Now to some people this is like oh no big deal but I cry nonstop if I don't see Phantom for a week (he's my emotional rock). Also since Phantom is getting a little up there in age if something God0forbid happened*knocks on wood* I would like to be able to get there asap. Well I consider them sort of family and them me--apparently-- but recently its been different. But anyway when we got back to their house I was really upset like borderline crying but I was holding it in so I packed my stuff up to go home(i sleep over almost every weekend) and then ran outto see Phantom(like I said emotional rock and he always lets me hug him and cry**bless that old boy he's heard so many of my problems**) so I was crying them I heard someone on the railing. It was my friend and I thought she was just coming to check on her horse's foot (it was really hot yesterday)so I asked how Tobi's foot was doing and she's like " im coming to ask what you think of the house" well I couldnt hold it in I started crying and I asked her to please don't make me answer the question(as I mentioned before I am sensitive) and I started crying harder because I couldnt picture having phantom so far away when he is too far now. She walked over and literally asked"what my problem was" so I told her and she basically said "well if your going to be unhappy about it you can move him" but it wasnt in a nice tone it was kind of snappy. Now I have never known her to be like this and she has never raised her voice to me or made me unhappy but this tone was harsh and almost mean. So that made me cry more and she kept going on about me moving him and stuff and saying if I couldnt move him he would saty with her forever. Also I am friends with her daughter and her daughter texted me after I left and said "my mom is such a backstabber" so naturally I asked why? Then she replied (this is the actual text) " She is talking s*** about you she said she couldn't believe you were crying over something so stupid and that you are too insecure about a horse and that you are over exaggerating the situation when nothing is actually wrong or going to change" she continued to say "Those are my moms words not mine...i know it is a big change" It makes me wonder if my "friend" has ever talked about me before. I feel like she doesn't want me there anymore . I don't know what to do. I don't have a trailer and my parents and I are in a bad money situation so I can't pay board for him anywhere. I would totally work at a barn to pay off his board but idk of any places to do it and I still lack a trailer to get him and me to shows. I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't know why she changed like this I always considered them family her daughter doesnt know why she said those things and her husband who considers me a second daughter doesn't know. Ugh
Sorry it was so long im just really really upset and don't know what to do.