Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Just south of sanity
Alwaysbehind is right, OP. It might stink, but whatever contract you have with her is still valid.
She can make any exceptions she wants because it's her barn, but you have to abide by the contract you have with her.
The best thing you can do is start looking quietly for a new barn.
No way would I want my horses in a barn where the BO is a stark raving psychotic, regardless of how much I liked the other boarders.
If you bite the bullet and stay there, you'll only have yourself to blame if things get bad.