You forget YOUR decision to move to that barn in the first place. |
Barn manager - barn owner - their barn, their rules. You know the rules when you agree to board, you follow them. If they don't fit with your ideal barn - do not move there.
Barn rules are simple. It is when the BM portrays herself as one person and then when you are in, a totally different person.
A Barn Manager has no right to tell you what color of tack you should use. Or embarass you infront of a hallway of people. Tell you what you can and cannot use on your own horse
A BM has no right to tell you how to disicipline your own horse or go awall when you don't do what she says you should do with your own horse.