Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Hatton Vale, QLD, Australia
now that sounds weird. Why doesnt he want to move now? Does he understand the stress you are going through and the fact that your horses health and your own sanity is at risk? If that sounds cranky it wasnt meant to I just think its a little unfair that he is not supporting your want to move.
Hopefully, as you said, he will notice in time. It is always hard when your partner doesnt agree with something you so badly want. If there is something my husband is fighting me on that is really affecting me, I tell him straight up that I need to talk to him about something that is very serious to me. He is then prepared for something. If you havent already, try explaining to him that this is a situation that is making you very uncomfortable and is upsetting you. Usually once I explain things to my hubby, he gets that its not a whim, its something that needs to be done. Sometimes men find it easy to ignore things as they don't have the emotional reactions that women have.
Whatever you decide to do, I hope it all works out for you. Im rather sad for you that you now have to deal with the possibility of not moving.
Good luck, take care
"I whisper but my horse doesnt listen...So I yell!!...He still doesnt listen"