Im going to make this as brief as I can!
I bought a horse last year and went through the whloe bonding thing. After heartache and tears and a few minor injuries we bonded. New girl arrived at the stable with first horse, 8 months later she still hasnt had a hack on it and I have bourne the brunt of her frustration. In the early days the accusations were hilarious.. my horse was waiting for hers to go asleep and creeping up and biting him. Someone (im the only other person there) has stolen his shoes in the field. The farmer owning the stables has taken her side. Yesterday I went use the loo and while I was in the loo she arrived at the stables. /after I walked out she rang the farmer and toldhim I had left the door open while her horses were loose. This is a very serious allegation as the yard is right next to the main london edinburgh trunk road. I insisted that she repeated the allegation in the presence of both the farmer and myself. When asked to do this she turned up her I pod and started singing to herself. When the farmer persisted to question her she said she refused to talk with me there as she hated my voice and locked herself in the stable. Ok so I have outed her as a trouble making liar. How do I deal with the fact that there will probably be people who believe her lies?