Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: Southeastern PA
While I would not have been pleased at all with the way that the girl was leading the horse, it is possible that the BO/BM might just have been advising you about the situation and still plan to talk to her about it.
I don't really think it is a big deal that lesson horses are out with boarders, I don't really see what difference that makes other than maybe gate safety if horses are coming and going a lot.
As far as the halter, that sucks, but at least it was still there. I am not a fan of people using my stuff without my permission, but it happens probably a lot more than any of us.
I think you have a right to be upset at the girl who was not leading her horse correctly, but I wouldn't sweat the other stuff.