Ok..let's see if I can explain it and make sense lol..
Do you see the little earth symbol on the reply box? It's beside the little picture button.
Go to your video on Youtube and right click on the URL, copy the URL, when you do that, come back to your thread and on top of the reply box click on the little earth and a box will pop up telling you to paste the URL in it...do that. Make sure you backspace the "http:" part that's already in the box or it won't work right...It will show up as just the URL at first but when you hit reply the video *should* show up in the thread.
Hopefully that made sense..
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