Okay this sounds awful but my lease horse, Sassy, will not slow down.
When I started working with her for barrels (bringing her out of retirement, she was a contester for 10+ years) She was great with the slowing down factor. She would slow down whenever I asked.
However, I, now, have to share her with some boy that runs her ramped. He's pretty much ruined all the work I've put into her.
Yesterday my barrel time was awful (27! I started out the year getting 18's) because I made her take wide turns and was fighting her to listen to me. I'm sooo mad. This is my only chance to get into contesting because my dad doesnt approve.. I don't want to just stop leasing her because of this boy.. and I've tried talking to him, and so has the owner (which is his foster...uhhh.. aunt.) So what do I do???