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post #21 of 24 Old 06-08-2010, 09:55 AM
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To ride properly, i.e.; quietly, with soft hands, a good seat, and using the correct leg and seat cues, requires finesse.

You cannot acquire the proper finesse without a professional trainer who is skilled in bringing along young or green riders. If you've never had a lesson I consider you a green rider no matter how well you think you ride.

The tack is not the only thing that makes each discipline different. There are cues and ways of riding that cannot be self taught, especially the more subtle things.

Anyone can buy English or Western tack and plop it on their horses, climb aboard, and hang on. That does not make one an accomplished rider by any stretch of the imagination.

The people who tell me they're self taught don't need to do so, because I can see it in the way they ride their horse. Ham fisted, legs swinging, arms flapping like a chicken, and balancing off the reins.

Anyone who wants to make sure their animal is enjoying the ride too, gets the proper training. After all, everything we do should be for their comfort, not ours. They're the ones hauling our butts around, so the right training is necessary to make sure they're not being abused, however unintentionally.

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post #22 of 24 Old 06-08-2010, 10:03 AM
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^^ That.

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post #23 of 24 Old 06-08-2010, 11:03 AM
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That was very well said.
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post #24 of 24 Old 06-08-2010, 05:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Lonestar22 View Post
I have never had an instructor in my life. I rode again today and my mare did not want to jump at all. She refused everytime. Well she did jump twice. Fell off for the first time in .... a long time. Knocked my head real hard on the jump. I'm ok. Just bruised. My ego as well. And pissed off that I couldn't stick. Lemme tell you I'm going to be doing alot of practicing. I'm more comfy in the canter today than yesterday. And the gallop is good too. Posting feels so weird. I'm gonna be doing alot of that.
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