I don't know how many times we can answer this for you. If you are trying all of the suggestions the members have given you thus far and none of them are working, then you need hands-on training from a professional.
As above. Go back and look at the multitude of other threads you have started on this subject.
Then seek help from a professional instructor. None of us can magically put your horse on it's hind legs unless you are willing to be patient, and more so, have an understanding on what is being explained to you.
Get an instructor. That will solve your problems.