I've also got the problam of her bucking and kicking out when I tap her with the whip
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It is not mean to give your horse a good whack if they have already had four chances to move forwards and chosen not to do it. If you want your horse to listen to you, you must lay down the law or it will not get any better.
Soft, medium, hard, cluck, crop. Its as easy as that.