^ you should try his son, Buck. He is known for not pushing the limits at all. He pushes you within your comfort zone but if he sees that you are getting uncomfortable, he is happy to take the jumps back down a notch.
If you don't like someone pushing you, do NOT try Phillip Dutton! He was fun ( I thought) but he definitely pushes you a lot
I would definitely go! It will be an amazing expirerence for oyu and your horse. And just as long as your safe and feel comfertable it should be a very plesant expirence. Have fun if you do go