Yeah I know I need to realease but it seems like I think my hands are stuck so Aamelia tells me to throw my hands at him. It looks gross, but as she said you have to over do it before you can have it looking nice, it doesn't really matter what I look like with my hands at the moment as long as I'm not on his mouth. That I was in the pictures above :(. Thanks for the mane that's what Aamelia said too. She tied my reins in a knot so I still had them but to actually go in two point over the fence I'd have to bring my hands forward too, that seemed to work nicely.
Thankyou :) I didn't end up having a lesson in dressage today, because Chinga and I were just not up to it. So we took Chinga and her horse Rusty over to the park and did some really fun training. Including trotting and cantering up massive hills, trail riding, de-spooking, getting patted by little kiddies and Aamelia got Chinga and I going over these log things (those barriers that have two log supports with a log across the top). Super day, learnt so much on control, ect.