I have now been loaning a bay arab for four and a half months, and cheeky as he is, I still love him to bits! The thing is, today the yard owner's daughter said I wasnt alowd to jump, yet the yard owner (her mum) said I could as long as the other girl who loans my horse is there as well! But her daughter STILL said not to jump. I asked her why, but she just cantered off! I don't know why she said what she did, but now I feel like she doesdnt want me to get to her level. She knows that I can jump and gallop, and she has seen me do it herself. Now I really hate her, I can't help but feel the way I do! It's really bugging me like mad now. Is it worth staying at this yard because I love my pony so much (he HAS to stay at this yard as he is still partly the yard owner's horse) or leave because I hate her daighter so much? I don't want to give up on my horse, but I want to be alowd to succeed and get to be a better rider! Please help!!!