grr someone is trying to convince me to get a new saddle because mine is pinching Cheyenne 'SOOO bad'. It's not that bad. It's a tiny bit tight but not even close to tight enough that it would hurt anything and the inside is totally fine it's just a tiny bit of leather that is flipped in a bit that is making it look like it's pinching so much. It's not pinching though. I'm starting to get defensive! I wouldn't do anything to hurt Cheyenne and if it was pinching that bad then I wouldn't have it but it's not pinching. I even had my trainor, Cheyenne's owner, to check it out and she said that it's fine and it won't hurt anything and I told the person that and they said some more stuff but they put quotation marks on 'trainor' which is pretty much saying that she's no good. Grrr! What do I say now? I told her that it's not as bad as it looks in the pictures and she's like 'honestly I think it is as bad as it looks.' but it's not with that pad on there. She's like 'if you keep that saddle on there then you might get a change of attitude from your horse for hurting her' and I'm thinking 'no it's not going to change her additude because it's not hurting her so would you just give it up. Cheyenne's owner and I aren't that stupid.' I didn't acually say that but that's what I'm thinking. What do I say now?? I don't wanna get really mad and tell her to give it up because that's what I would've done a while ago and I am trying to stop getting so angry like that. I need advice guys!!
Last edited by Cheyennes mom; 03-22-2011 at 02:17 PM.