Why is it that 18 year old guys have to be messy! I mean my boyfriend I've been going out with for 11 months, he has no sense of cleanliness! I've even heard his mother telling him that he needs to shave and she's even cleaned his room a few times because its gotten so bad, hell even I've cleaned it a few times, and he moans that when I do it it makes him feel bad, but even if I don't do anything he just leaves it! I can't stand messy rooms, it makes my mood horrible! And he has no respect for my room either! He'll sit with his shoes on, on my bed and he knows I hate that I mean that's a place we sleep we don't need his dirty shoes on my bed. And he always leaves his empty beer bottles and take-away bags lying, the bin got moved literally 2 feet away from his side of the bed but does he use it, no! He rolls his fags on my bed so theres always bits of baccy in my bed which makes it so crumby and uncomfortable, he'll leave his stinking socks lying on the floor and if they're not delt with they start smelling reallllly bad AND despite haveing a job that earns the same as me, maby even a bit more he's always skint and expects me to buy his food and baccy im and if I don't I feel bad because he's all like sad and depressed about it gahhh! I can't win!!!!
Cookies if you read all that and anyone any tips to cure bad habits in people?