Originally Posted by Cinder
...Wow, this is the most ignorant and insulting post I've seen from you, Faceman.
Why are you offended or disgusted by someone's else's weight? And why would you specify "girls/women"? Is a girl with a "big belly" somehow worse than a man with a big belly? If you think so, that is sexist and wrong.
As for muffin tops, I have had problems with my weight in the past. Depending on where I was, my jeans could either be very loose, or tight, and I very well might have sported a "muffin top" at some point. That was no one's problem but my own. Even if your jeans aren't too tight, you might still have a "muffin top", simply because you don't have a flat stomach.
Trust me, I did not nor have I ever thought I was sexy. I used to feel terribly about myself.
Now, I don't think that you should wear jeans that are ten sizes too small or anything like that, mostly because I can't see how that could be comfortable.
What I choose to wear is none of your business. Nor is my or anyone else's weight or bellies. If you have a problem with someone else's weight or "big belly", you can kindly take your opinions home, with what I assume is a flat stomach and perfectly fitting clothing,
What a person does or does not find offensive has nothing to do with ignorance. Try looking up the definition of ignorant...it might enlighten you.
As I said, I find muffin tops, especially on young girls, offensive and disgusting. It has NOTHING to do with weight - I NEVER said or intimated I have anything against overweight people. As a former bodybuilder and fitness trainer I have worked with lots of overweight people - they are people just as anyone else.
If you don't find girls walking around with their huge bellies flopping in the breeze for all to see offensive, that is your opinion. I have my opinions, and if you don't like them that is too bad.
Just so you know in advance if any of them come up in future threads, I also find guys that wear their pants around their knees disgusting, I find people that don't bathe disgusting, I find 13 year old girls that dress like hookers disgusting, and I find excessive (note, I said excessive) facial piercing disgusting. Notice none of those things have anything with a person's weight or looks - but rather how they present themselves. It is the presentation that is disgusting - not the person's physical condition...