Sad, seems like it might take her house burning to the ground for her to learn and if does I'd honestly shrug and say "told you so". But I'd move out of you could, with your sibling(s) if possible. I love candles but I only ever burn them when I'm in the room even if I just go to the bathroom I blow out the candle and I always make sure there is nothing flammable that could fesibly touch the flame. My friends Dad is the fire chief of Delta, so he hates candles altogether which I understand but honestly if your responsible about it I don't see an issue.
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