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        08-19-2013, 08:14 PM
    Bad breaks are not fun. One thing I have learned over the years is never again put myself last. I've learned to be more selfish and not be on the bottom of the list. I do more for me and do what I want. My ex when he was around would stifle me in many ways, and I allowed it to happen. Money was spent on what he wanted, we did what he wanted. Never again. And with this relationship of 18 years there is no being amicable and being friendly and that is not my choice, he is a vindictive and mean person at heart who intends to make my life hell, so I wiped him out of it as much as I can. Chin up and move on there is better things waiting for you.
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        08-19-2013, 09:18 PM
    Thanks Jaydee and Mochachino; you're both absolutely right. I'm slowly getting past it. ETA: It'll be a big change putting myself first, instead of others.. but it needs to happen. I can't allow someone that mean to keep me down.

    As for Em's advice about the guy here... he's absolutely been great. We talk and we're both smiley and nothing too awkward happening. He's been supportive of things I've told him, including my future plans for college.

    Just goes to show there are still some wonderful guys out there :)
        08-24-2013, 09:47 PM
    Green Broke
    Originally Posted by Skyseternalangel    
    Thank you for saying that. I hope I can find someone who invests as much into our relationship as I do.
    EXCATLY THAT! You are only 4 months away from being re-united with the 'man of your dreams' - one who will hug you when you cry, be there to take those strenuous riding lessons with you, and know the same feeling of accomplishment. His name is Sky. Someday you'll meet a mature male of your own kind who will be thrilled for your accomplishments, as you will for his, and he will cheer you on with said accomplishments with Sky because that's what love is. I have that, and am very certain that someday you will too. Until then, and not only until then, you will be an independent, educated young lady who can accomplish anything she wishes! :)
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        08-24-2013, 10:45 PM
    Sky, men think differently from women and they simply move on. We women dwell on things to our detriment. Instead of beating yourself up for bad judgement, think of what the future holds. Think of the old adage For every door that closes, a new one opens. The old one has closed but you need to step thro the new one.
        08-24-2013, 10:51 PM
    Good Riddance to bad trash! Do not waste anymore time on him, he already stole enough of your life.
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        08-25-2013, 01:17 AM
    I'm definitely over him now, it was just a moment of weakness that I needed some support crossing.

    Thanks for all the replies everyone :) In a much better place now
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