Originally Posted by My2Geldings
For sure eh. One thing that I wonder about, is the reason for the father kidnapping the kids like that. Was the mother sane? Was he sane? What were the children psyched into all these years? Which parents was right? Wrong?
That is going to be one heck of a recovery process that's for sure, but regardless comes to show facebook isn't a safe place to be on!
Exactly - it doesn't say anything about the kids being mistreated or anything and we certainly don't know the details, but it's shameful when parents use kids to hurt each other. Having been raised in a split home, and divorcing when my child was young myself, it's important, to me, that the child is on good terms with both parents and doesn't have to listen to their folks bad mouth each other. I think it's sad that the mother missed out on her kids childhood.
And ITA with the whole facebook/etc thing. My best friend has a teenage niece who is frequently posting pictures of herself in bikinis etc on her myspace page - and I just cringe. Anyone who looks at her page has her name, the town she lives in, the school she goes to, and what she looks like - bad, bad, bad idea.