Originally Posted by stevenson
the only thing a grudge will do , is make the person who is holding it sick. It does nothing to the other person. No family is 'functional' Some may be better than others but that's life. You need to forgive people . Don't expect an 80 yr old to drive to you. You seem to dislike your Step Mother . My suggestion is that you put the past in the past and move forward. If your class is not an 8 hr class, then get your hiney over to see GP . If you canno tdo it on the same day, then go over On Sunday and take Him some fruit or something.
It is an 8 hour class.
I don't expect them to, but I do know they are perfectly able, they drive long distances on a regular basis.
I visit them on a regular basis.
I do dislike my step mom at times because of things like this. Everytime I try to let something go, she angers me again in someway. The last time I talked to her was months ago when she called to tell me my dads father had a stroke. And she called to tell me she was sad because her dog died. It seems like tge only time I hear from her is when something bad happens.
If we had a closer relationship, then yeah and call me and talk about why I am not coming. But we don't, so don't text me and act nasty before you ask what is going on. Posted via Mobile Device