I like the harlequins because you can read them in about 2 hours. but you are right, they are pretty similar. They hate each other but they are attracted to each other, they fall in love, misunderstanding, break-up, turning point, back in love.
I still enjoy them though.
I can't even get past the book jacket on the shades of grey trilogy though. Can you give a little insight without actually giving any spoilers so I can decide if I want to take the plunge on the trilogy or not?
"Be a best friend, tell the truth, and overuse I love you
Go to work, do your best, don't outsmart your common sense
Never let your prayin knees get lazy
And love like crazy"