Men think lesbians are hot because the porn industry has made it appear that all women, regardless of actual sexual orientation, are all lesbians if given the chance. Guys, it's PORN! It's NOT REAL LIFE!
The idea of touching another woman sexually makes me. Me nauseated, not turned on. A true hetero woman is no more attracted to the same sex than a hetero man. Deal with it.
Oh, and I'd never wear heels while engaged in the act, as that's a good way to put out someone's eye. It's all fun and games until somebody takes a stiletto to the eye!