I am very happy for you! I know this may seem like an ending (having finally found him) but it is really only a beginning. Relationships take time and effort from both parties to become strong and healthy. And remember, as someone said before, if this doesn't work out the way you hope, don't let it effect the person you are. We are much more than the genes we were born with. Also, it seems like your birthmother has done at least one positive thing for you by giving him your contact info? Best of luck to you!