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post #21 of 24 Old 03-24-2010, 07:37 PM
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I know a few people like that! But you know? Make up is a rather harmless addiction, so I say you're alright!

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post #22 of 24 Old 03-24-2010, 08:15 PM
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Originally Posted by drafts4ever View Post
I'm talking about growing up and accepting the way you look. Not that there is anything wrong with me and I fully believe perfection is in the eye of the beholder. If you think you're beautiful, you are and personality trumps all looks. (again personal opinion). But In the past year and a half I've realized I don't try to "look good" when I'm out and about.

When I was in middle school I wore make up to hide my acne, then I added dark eyeliner and eye shadow when I went through my goth phase. Then In high school I came out of goth and went over the top glam and crazy hair colors for a couple years. That was a disaster. Finally I mellowed down into cover up to even my skin tones and some eye liner and chap stick or lip gloss whichever one happened to be in my pocket. I also let my hair grow back out to blond. That stayed through first year of college and when I turned 20 I changed my eyeliner to a dark brown thin line instead of jet black and thick, I'm told it brings my blue eyes? whatever works I guess.

Within the past year and a half, since I was 20 I've noticed I just don't care about looking good anymore. I used to put on make up to go to safeway at 2 in the morning to get yogurt!!! I used to go home from whatever barn I was at and change into nice clean clothes and redo my face before going out to do whatever silly thing I had to do. It was rare I had an occasion where I actually should have dressed up and looked good but I did it anyway. Because I really cared how I looked it was almost like I needed that public approval of " look at me I'm pretty" which in retro spec was a pretty snobby way to think.
Then I went out the whole day without make up, I was in a hurry. Just brushed my hair threw on some sweats and a t shirt and left the house. When I got home I realized it didn't look bad at all, actually natural looked better for me. I've since gone to jeans and a t shirt, most of the time in muck boots too since I work at two barns and any arrans are done on the way to or from work. Unless I have a horrible acne break out I might run a light concealer coat over my face but that's as far as it goes. Now I'm in the mindset "I'm taking a shower sometime later why waste the make up now?" I think that's a good place for me.

I guess I've just realized my personality gets more attention than my looks, and I'm not above average by any means. I have my good and bad days but I really don't care anymore. My horse and students aren't going to judge me based on my looks. I don't get up anymore and spend an hour to look perfect anymore, my boyfriend loves it because we can leave the house faster. haha. I think I've finally grown out of make up. Granted if the situation calls for it I'll pull it out of the box and paint my face but other than that it's not important to "be pretty" anymore. Since I haven't been wearing make up my skin has looked more healthy and that's just awesome.

Just had to get that out.

Oh and a tip for skin care. Those big red acne zits that hurt really bad. Honey and aspirin masks work wonders!!!! There's a thousand recipes online for them and they reduce size and swelling and redness in just a few minutes!

ps: sorry for any spelling mistakes. It's late.
It's funny because in I didn't start wearing makeup until the end of high school. Then after that I really didn't wear much, mainly because of my job. I worked odd hours and I had to be out the door in mins so no way to fix or touch up makeup(I'm a paramedic). I just learned to do without, or have a very light makeup job.

Now I use makeup every day, but I still do a very light, natural look (see avatar), mainly because I like the look. I do feel you should look natural and just be yourself as opposed to plastering make up on.

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post #23 of 24 Old 03-24-2010, 09:10 PM
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Originally Posted by wannahorse22 View Post
I am in 8th grade. EVERYONE wears make-up. And boy did i glob that stuff all over my face. But then i got so tired of people saying "you look orange" or "You look like a ghost"...i just stopped putting it on. All i did was wipe some mascara on and that was it. It was nice because i didnt have to worry anymore about when i was going to throw another layer of makeup on. Until...My friend came up to me one day and says "You look bad, you need some makeup". I felt like crying:( So i am kinda stuck now. I would really rather not wear any, but my face just broke out:(( Advice??
First, perhaps you should rethink your choice of friends would never be so rude as to say something like that, even back in 8th grade. If you don't want to wear any, then don't. If your face breaking out makes you feel unbearably self-conscious, then throw on some concealer or a light foundation. The only make-up phase I ever went through was just throwing on a little eyeliner. I by no means have perfect skin (still in the teenage breakout phase, though I'm finally 18...), but I no longer wear any make-up unless I'm going somewhere nice.
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post #24 of 24 Old 03-24-2010, 09:26 PM Thread Starter
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now that I'm back in the old routine again for night shifts and stage lights I'm back to make up at night but I'm on another forum that is based on the same "profession" I do and they've suggested some great makes up that help skin and aren't all cakey. I found some make up wipes for the end of the night so I can keep my face nice and clean before and after work. That just gives me more incentive not to wear make up during the day since I'll be layered in it at night, I'm going to try to do lighter this time around though and I've been told has some great make up a bunch of dancers use and talk only the best about.
Not looking forward to all those layers again but at least I'll be taking care of my skin the best I can this time. I think. I hope.

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