I know what you mean, barn drama sucks. What happened at this barn for you to feel that you are going to be kicked out? If you feel this is a concern, talk to the barn owner, explain your side of the situation.
I recently moved from a very drama filled barn to a lovely one - and honestly, I wouldn't ever change back!
Well I'm not getting kicked out but since I left everything out here's the story:
I board at my best friend Katherine's barn. My other best friend Rubie boards there too. There is a click of people who we all go riding with who live or board around the farm that I am at. One being this lady Brandy. Well Brandy said some nasty things on Facebook about our local farrier about how he didn't take care of his kids and horses. And I told him about it. One because I can't stand a two faced bitch and two because it takes advantage of him being Mennonite. And she based it alot on that and its entirely not true. Well word got back to her that I told and she became in distaste for me. Which I didn't care because she'll get bent out of shape if you just suggest anything to her about anything. She wants to tell you how she wants you to take care of/ride/anything else with you horse. But doesn't want to hear a lick about anything that you think. Its so bad that her daughter doesn't want anything to do with horses at all because brandy ruins it she's that anal retentive.
Well anyway. Katherine's brothers and Brandys son are best friends. Well they went down into the barn and spray painted all over my stall. And only my stall. Well to say I was kinda pissed. So the click went riding and Rubie and I had to catch up because we were doing something else once we caught up. Brandy dawned at Rubie and didn't say **** to me. I didn't really care. I just laughed. Well Rubie and brandy had a talk and said that the boys were going to paint my stall and clean all of ours. Well needless to say the boys didn't do **** so they could go race back to the hang out and watch porn. They are around 15. I called Brandy to see what was up and why the stall wasn't painted and what not. Just curious. Well she got all bent out of shape and told me that he son only painted a couple of chickens. Mmmhm, right? Then told me that she or her son should have to do anything about it anyway because he wasn't the physical one who did it. There were 2 different things painted on my stall both in different hand writing. Even on top of that hasn't she heard of a phrase called "guilty by association"? Then her son called me and questioned me. Then her husband who I adore called me and was like sorry about all this **** I'll fix it.
The next day Kat texted me and told me to leave brandy alone. And I didn't really do anything but asked a couple of questions the day before. I told her I wasnt doing anything at all and that I just wanted to ask about the stall. Then Brandys son started texting me. And immediately after I sent the last text Kat texted me and said I thought I told you to leave them alone. And I kirked out on her and told her to piss off.
So later on that day I said sorry for telling her to piss off and then Brandys crackhead(I can say this in an honest manner. I will never forgive a child abuser.) sister calls me saying she's trying to mediate but all she tells me is that its my fault and everyone on that side is innocent and that its not for me to take concern over the stall. And that was the final straw. I hung up the phone because otherwise I was going to come through that phone and choke her. GOD BLESS IT! I pay for Kat's **** phone! Which is no different than if I paid her board money instead. I pay for it there for it's mine. I have complete business in what goes in it and what's on it.
Let's just say I'm not the person you make mad. I can't control myself. And I was very lucky to be by myself. There wouldn't even be stalls in that barn if it wasn't for me.
I still stick with my original comments. People who have drama in their lives create it themselves.
It was not your place to tell someone what someone else said about them, its never wise in any situation because you are involving yourself and creating drama.
Let someone else deal with it next time.
As far as the stall thing goes I would be mad too, but shouldn't the barn owner take care of that kind of stuff?
Also, if you never would have started anything I would be willing to bet you would not be dealing with any of this other BS.
Also, its very immature of you to call names and accuse people of doing things, true or not, that is also not your place to he putting on the web. Your doing the same thing you told on her for doing.