I still stick with my original comments. People who have drama in their lives create it themselves.
It was not your place to tell someone what someone else said about them, its never wise in any situation because you are involving yourself and creating drama.
Let someone else deal with it next time.
As far as the stall thing goes I would be mad too, but shouldn't the barn owner take care of that kind of stuff?
Also, if you never would have started anything I would be willing to bet you would not be dealing with any of this other BS.
Also, its very immature of you to call names and accuse people of doing things, true or not, that is also not your place to he putting on the web. Your doing the same thing you told on her for doing.