Help - quandry over a friendship
When a long time friend moved in with a fellow, a few people who knew him well advised her to use caution and too keep her place until she was certain. A dear lady in her 80's wrote her a kindly note basically saying what the others had said. This was almost a year ago. Over the ensuing months, the friend, who did move in, has enlarged and twisted the meaning of the note. She told me she even called a lawyer to have a peace bond put on this senior. This lady does not call or bother my friend and I doubt she called a lawyer. Anyway, the two couples happened to attend the same restaurant, each at their own tables. As the friend and bf were leaving he stopped to chat with the senior fellow as they'd worked together. My "friend" decided to lambast the senior lady and her hubby when her bf stopped talking. I am friends with the senior couple whom I cherish as they are good and kindly people. What do I do about the "friend". I am appalled at her actions. Right now if she were to call me I'd tell her.....I don't know what I'd tell her.