Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Just south of sanity
Nicole, if you know when he's going to be home, why do you have to go to a show that weekend?
Sounds like you want him to do all the compromising and understanding, and just deal with whatever you want to do.
In order for a relationship to work, both parties need to compromise, not just one. I don't see why you couldn't stay home with him one weekend out of the many you have alone to do whatever you want.
Sorry, but I'm leaning more toward sympathy with your BF than you. I'd be miffed as heck too if I only had one weekend every 3 weeks to see my SO and he told me, "Too bad, so sad, I have something else planned."
If the shoe were on the other foot and you were feeling neglected, the women here would be screaming for his blood. So not fair, and I hate double standards.
Last edited by Speed Racer; 12-15-2010 at 12:31 PM.