A guy just messaged me on Facebook asking if I want to go out sometime. The thing is, I don't. I knew he always had a thing for me but I never thought he'd act on it. It's not that he's not a nice guy, I just don't want to go out with him. I really don't want to hurt his feelings or make him hate me. How can I nicely turn him down?
By saying what you just did. Upfront and honest is key, if you don't he may never get the hint and pine away making things even more awkward as time goes by.
Leave it at that. He made an offer, you considered and politely declined. If he is any kind of man, and you said he was nice, that should be the end of it.
Yes. Just be straight-forward. When guys message me & I'm not interested, all I say is 'thanks but I'm not interested.' & call it a day. :lol:
That's all you need to do. I agree with @jimj911, just leave it at that.
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