Thanks guys, really I needed it. I'm going to talk to her
tonight one on one after her ex leaves.
Angel- your advice was very useful to me, thanks! :)
Oh I forgot to mention she moved her ferret in also which
stinks to high heaves (don't get me wrong I love ferrets
and use to have one) into my dogs room and told me not
to let them stick their nose in it's cage because it will bite
She is supposed to be finding a gome for it, my mom offered
to take it if she was going to just give it away and I told her
what my mom said and she made the comment "I think the
best home for her would be to someone who is willing to pay
money for her"...the stupidest thing I've ever heard imo.