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        11-17-2013, 01:37 PM
    Tigo, I will say Pistachio is awesome xD!!

    Cacowgirl-I absolutely agree!!
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        11-17-2013, 01:43 PM
    I think I'll go ahead and do a bit of an update...

    Still in intensive therapy. I am learning how to scooch(sp? XD) myself around as best I can. The pain can get really bad, and they are continually changing my pain med regimen... But that's alright! I am stoked that I am making progress.

    There are some little bits of bad news, though... I mentioned this just a bit above, but my boyfriend has all but dropped off the earth. I haven't heard from him or seen him in 4/5 days. He won't respond to my texts or return my class.
    Just so everyone knows I'm not sending him an absurd amount, I have texted four times: twice Wednesday to verify if he was coming, just a hell on Friday, and once yesterday to say I really needed to talk. I called once yesterday, and sent him a facebook message. FB said he say my message about twenty minutes after I sent it but, again, I haven't heard from him...

    It is honestly starting to worry me. I at least know he is alright because of him seeing the FB message, so that makes me feel good... but, is he breaking up with me? Why won't he talk to me? ): I just find it so odd that he did a 180, from spending every day in the hospital with me, to zero correspondence at all.

    Also... (This is slightly worse news...) I got the police report from my fall. Apparently, I told the police person at the scene that I did not fall, I jumped.
    I don't believe that for a second. I think I said that because I was intoxicated and frightened, and probably prompted to say so (IE-"Did you jump?"). My mother saw the report and is very upset.
    But, again, I don't believe it. I love my life, and am not the slightest bit suicidal.

    This is all just...very stressful ):
        11-17-2013, 02:12 PM
    Green Broke
    If the rail broke and you fell then maybe when you get to feeling a little better you might want to consult with an attorney.
        11-17-2013, 03:23 PM
    ^The railing didn't break, I slipped from it.

    It is a thin metal, and about chest high on me (I'm 5'5"). I would say the top of it is maybe two inches wide.
    I hoisted myself up and onto it and while I was shuffling, I slipped.
        11-18-2013, 01:49 PM
    You say all sorts of things when you are drunk, so I wouldn't worry too much about it. You know that you are happy with your life and didn't want to kill yourself. I know that I've gotten the urge to do stupid things while drunk before, like jumping off places that are too high and it is not so that I can hurt myself, but rather because you tend to feel invincible when drunk, so it just sounds like fun.

    You sure don't sound suicidal to me

    I hope you are able to work things out with your boyfriend. It's traumatic to see someone you care about get hurt badly and he probably feels partially responsible. Hopefully he just needs some time to process things now that the stress of you being in serious danger has subsided.
        11-18-2013, 02:38 PM
    Boyfriend came around yesterday. Like I had suspected, he just needed time to think. (: So... everything is back on track and good!

    My father is coming to see me today from Orange County... I haven't seen him in nearly a year, and we tend to butt heads a bit... Should be interesting, and I'll keep everyone updated. Heh.
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        11-18-2013, 05:57 PM
    Mini Update Time!

    So... my father xD

    Without throwing my dad under the bus too much, I will say he is a...very...eccentric man. He has lots of money, has been married three times, has more women than he knows what he deal with... Yikes haha.

    Anyway, he doesn't always think things through the way he should.

    So there is one big big airport in Colorado, and that's DIA. There is also a fair sized airport in Colorado Springs. I am in the hospital in Colorado Springs, just about ten minutes from that airport. That's where my mother flew into--piece of cake. I told my dad (coming from Orange County) that's where he needed to fly into. For whatever reason (seriously, he couldn't give me one) he wasn't having it. He wanted to fly into DIA, rent a car, and drive three hours to get here. Well...whatever.

    So, he gets here... and his license is expired! XD How did he get on the plane?! Makes me feel safe... Anyway, he should have just listened to me. Now he is on a Shuttle. Who knows how long that will take him!

    Aanndd... my mom disappeared without my phone. I feel stranded. XD
        11-19-2013, 02:15 PM
    Another updated!

    I was visited by a doctor yesterday and informed that surgery will be... today ._.! They were waiting for the swelling in my right ankle to go down, and they had said it would tentatively be Friday-Sunday... But, apparently I'm ready now. So, I haven't had anything to eat or drink in the past twelve hours, and I am scared out of my mind... Wish me luck!
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        11-19-2013, 03:04 PM
    Green Broke
    Hope all goes well!
        11-19-2013, 03:21 PM
    Sending you some good luck, as requested!

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