So I've been talking to this guy since February (I got my current job around the same time we started talking, so its easy to remember haha) and I like him. I mean, I don't know if I'd marry him but he'd certainly be nice to be married to. Army reserves, going to school to become a science teacher (everyone say AWWWWW), we have some of the same ideals, some not (for example he's kind of conservative and I'm liberal, he hates dogs) but I mean, we've been conversing for six months and he hasn't started ignoring me yet, so....
Anyway, the big gap here is that he lives in Oklahoma, and I in Florida. In a few weeks for my birthday I am going to be taking the trip up there to physically meet him for the first time, and some days I'm excited, some days I think I'm the most ******ed woman on the planet. FOR ALL OF YOU SAFETY NUTS, I have spoken to him on the phone, on webcam, I have his facebook....the face matches the name and details and all of that fun stuff so I at least know he is who he claims to be in the legal sense. So I really have no reason to be nervous, again, from a legal standpoint. Its only for a weekend, I will be getting there mid-day Thursday and leaving sometime in the early evening on Sunday. So, as I've told him plenty of times, if its that awkward I just have to wait it out a few days and then I can never talk to him again
Random musings are welcome and accepted, I know all of you parents out there will be dying to chime in so....have at it!
Oh and just so we're clear, I'm turning 21 so I am a big girl, or at least I think so haha.