Originally Posted by kitten_Val
Can you just trash that mail? Or at least check it before giving to kids?
I agree. Or give her suggestions.
Tommy could really use a notebook for math class, Jimmy likes green shoelaces in his sneakers.
Remember - any new thing for a kid is a treat. It wouldn't matter if it was something she sent or the toy from the happy meal. The day to day interaction with you and their dad is what they carry in their hearts.