Oh Geez..all about them for your wedding? I don't think so. That's the one day it's ONLY about the couple.
My Hubby and I got married in 3 days. LOL His dad was the preacher that married us, but he didn't steal the show. MY mom was the "Momzilla" about that..didn't want to help, chose not to show up, though invited, then threw a fit that she didnt' make it. Fortunately my family is immature enough to just not speak to me when they are mad, so we don't really have to deal with the drama much. My MIL thought it was romantic how we married on short notice, which suprised me.
That "not passing the baby around" right after birth thing makes sense to me..surely they have a massive headache, not to mention the shock of being out of the cozy, warm womb. If it makes puppies and kittens sick, why can't it make humans sick? Besides, it's YOUR baby to bond with..they had their chance when they had your husband :roll: and any of his siblings years ago. Baby hogs. LOL