Originally Posted by dbarabians
Aspin the pattern I was speaking of is that you have moved 3 times each time did not work out. Now you want to move again.
Moving is not going to solve anything. Discuss the situation with your father . Come to an agreement about what you can and are willing to pay. Get it in writing and stick to it.
Before moving find a job and save money. If the cats are too expensive then yes as suggested they need to be placed elsewhere. That or continue to live in less than desirable conditions.
Your young think long term not just about temporary fixes. Once again good luck. Shalom
I had settled in my mind to move a few months back, and moving sooner is only that- expediting the process. Also, there was never mention of my cats being unaffordable to me. The only way you might be seeing that they have become unaffordable is because of the lack of rentals. The lack of rentals was not caused by the cats, it just happens to be the issue I'm now facing that I've never had to face before in my four years of renting.
The cats are staying, so is my horse, and that is non-negotiable.
The issue with paying rent is not my ability to afford it, more so that he has gone back on his word on what the agreement was.
I also take great offense to your insinuation that I'm not thinking of my future. The point in leaving this town that I can't properly afford is to better my future. It puts me closer to schooling and better opportunities. I'm just trying to get there and facing some substantial adversity in the process.