Originally Posted by My2Geldings
Live life Brandon. Enjoy everything while you are still free to do as you choose. Things always happen when you stop purposely looking for them.
I agree. I was feeling a bit unhappy in high school that I'd had only one "Real" boyfriend and it wasn't even a "real" thing. We were "technically" together but we lived far apart and it was the summer before my freshman year and neither of us could drive. So, we never saw each other and honestly..I just wasn't ready. The whole thing freaked me out so I ended it. Then towards the end of high school I started thinking I shouldn't have and I should have sucked it up because stupidly I felt like that could have been my only shot at love. I knew it was a ridiculous thought but I felt lousy about myself and not having a boyfriend etc.
Well, time came to go to college and before I left I decided I was just going to be myself, be happy with who I am and have fun. It was the best thing I ever did. I wasn't looking for love or anything. I went out to a party with my friends and met my current boyfriend. We started dating a month or so after we met and now here we are, 25 months later :)
It will come. Be patient and don't go looking for it! Just enjoy yourself :) It will be that much better when it comes.