So I won't make this long but I also had to share, couldn't wait any longer, my boyfriend of almost three years one is looking at engagement rings....I looked over his shoulder a few nights ago and saw a ring, didn't think much of...I was dead tired and the. Later it kind of hit me of wait...ring? Why is he looking rings? So layer away all night thinking about the last two years and however months iv known him and been dating him.
So the other morning we where getting ready for the day, he went and got in the shower and took a peek at his phone....he's always playing with my phone lol I looked in his internet history (some may think that wasn't fair of me or that I'm snoopy) but I honestly had to see what was going on simply because I plan things out, I can't be spring with big life altering questions. But there is was a 14k white gold engagement ring....I'm shocked and don't know what to think about it...in the past he has stated he doesn't want to get married...he feels it's a generation thing and his friends who got married young are now divorcing and his mom and dad had a bad divorce when he was a kid and he doesn't want to go through that with someone he loves and he really wants a big family...he was an only child and wishes so bad he would have had siblings and a happy good family.
So I haunt said anything to him.
If he where to ask I would say yes.
Here is why
Iv grown to know him, love him, understand him, respect him for who he is and his flaws.
He respects me with my college classes and wanting to get a career in helping youth, he supports and enjoys my love of horses with me, he respects me all around for who I am, there on my bad days, shares the great days with smiles and laughs, when I'm unsure he listens and pushes me to do what I know is right for me or the situation at hand.
So I had to share my big news of what I found lol call me snoopy but for me I had to know.
If I had a picture of the ring that was in his phone I'd post it lol.
So now it's the waiting game
And honestly if he never purposes for whatever reason he has I'm okay with that too. He knows I loves him and am always here for him and visa-versa but it would be fun and exciting :)