So sorry to hear :(
I can relate, I lost a baby 2 years ago. It was not a nice experience, and I'm sorry you have to go through it. What got me through it, was by telling myself that something was wrong with it, and this was better than the child having to deal with whatever issues it may have had. I have since gone on to have a healthy baby boy.
I do hope yourself and partner can deal with this and find a way get through it soon.
Everybody grieves differently... I was back at work the next day as I felt like I needed to put it behind me. It took my husband longer to deal with it. You'll get through this somehow, and you've made a start by speaking about it and not bottling it up.
Thinking of you.
Stop for a minute, open your mind, learn. You may not agree with what I say, I may not agree with what you say but we will both learn something new.
Last edited by Maple; 08-03-2012 at 06:07 PM.