In all reality, I really never meant to be rude to the planner nor anyone here. I am a nice person, and I think I write well, but then again, maybe I don't choose the best words when writing. But by no means is it intentional, so I won't claim it to be. And everyone makes mistakes. I dont think im anywhere near perfect. But i do always try to better myself. Which was why i asked you to elaborate on what you saw was rude or abbrasive. Hopefully one day I will be able to get my opinions across without them appearing as fact and only as my side.