Originally Posted by LetAGrlShowU
Groom would be happy with the courhouse, or anyting that makes me happy. I am leaning now towards spmething smaller, its just finding the happy medium where you don't piss off relatives that some were invited and others not...
I just wanted a regular wedding like most other brides have. It would have jsut been more special on my farm but im fine with a small gathering somewhere else that has an inclusive type deal. Thank you for those being supportive with your great ideas. MLS- I was not trying to sound rude, I truly think that's why I come off that way.
So get married - your way and then throw an open house/party/reception for the guests.
We hosted a 25th anniversary party for one of our boarders. We bought plywood (good grade) to make a dance floor, DJ on a hay rack, rented tables and chairs and put them all in our indoor arena. I powerwashed the barn, mowed, trimmed and weeded to within an inch of my life. Driveway was lined with tiki torches, barn adorned with the white fairy lights and tulle. Parking was in our outdoor arena.
We chose to help the couple and did a potluck (gift from my boarders) but a caterer could handle the food.