and I'm going crazy! His car was totaled and he cut his head open pretty badly and it was bleeding badly as well (so I'm told I'm still in NC while he's up in VA). I'm not there and its so hard to find out whats going on and I hate just sitting here waiting! I'm trying to find things to preoccupy my time while I sit and wait! I can hardly breath, ugh. My husband is everything in the world to me and I could never live without him. My only hope I'm hanging by is that I talked to him after the accident and he was coherent, at one point he was really dizzy and wasn't making much sense but I talked to him about 10 min later and he was back to being coherent and knew everything that was going on. Thats a good sign, right? They life flighted him to the hospital but that still took an hour for them to get him there! His car is totaled so I'm sure he has some more damage somewhere on him.
Thankfully someone saw him and called 911 right away. He was out on a country road in the middle of nowhere so I'm SO thankful that girl was there. I don't even know what to do right now! I have 4 cats, 2 BIG dogs, and 2 sugar gliders here with me I don't know anyone here, we're in the middle of moving and I have no clue what to do with all the animals.
Ugh sorry that was rambling but I just needed to talk because I'm going crazy just sitting here!
oh no!!! I have no idea what I would do if I were in your position. I can only imagine that you're going insane waiting! Hang in there, you're his strength in a time like this. What happened if you don't mind me asking? or have you not been able to find out yet? Best wishes!
Wow, my thoughts are with you too. That's terrible. I'm sure that he will be okay. As for the animals, have you looked into a boarding kennel or even a vet clinic that would be willing to board them for a few days?
Sorry you are having to go through the anxiety of waiting .
Head wounds do tend to bleed alot because of all the small capularities and
small cuts will bleed alot. as far as him being dizzy and such, he probably has
a slight concusion from hitting his head,
also what smrobs said about the animals, call the kennels and vets,
if they can't take them for a few days they may be able to give you the name
of a person who pet sits.
The car is the least of your worries, the most important thing was for him to have been accessed by EMS and from what you said he was so he is in good hands now. Excellent news to hear you talked to him as well.
Sending my love to your family. Please keep us posted on his recovery.
Kel
Everything seems to be ok, thank god! I've been talking with him on the phone and the cat scans came back ok and he had to get a bunch of stitches. His ankle is sprained so thats not a big deal. I just couldn't stand waiting!!!! especially being far away. But they're supposed to let him out of the hospital this afternoon. We're trying to see if the military will somehow get him down to NC so he can be here with me and I can keep an eye on him and help him and also get everything in the house done (of course I'm not completely concerned about this right now) but it will help to get me up to VA quicker to help him up there!
I'm not worried about the car at all I just made sure I called the insurance company late last night so they at least knew about it. Now I just have to talk to the police to get more info about it so I can give it to the insurance company. I joked with him about his car.....he was just saying the other day that he wanted a new car and I told him there were other ways to get a new car :lol: So now he gets one! Of course not anytime soon because he needs to get better and rest.
Thanks again everyone! What a horrible night......
Glad to hear that he is okay! It must have been tough waiting. My hubby is the world to me as well and I get sick to my stomache when I don't hear from him at least everyday while he are apart.
I'm the same way!!! Especially after him being over in Iraq and getting injured a lot I'm even more paranoid about him. But I know I can't control everything. I thank my lucky stars a million times over that he is ok!!!!
Thanks so much for the update. Tell him thats a heck of a way to get a new car :lol:
It never gets any better ladies, I've been married going on 21 years. I worry every time he get in his car and drives to work.
Yikes! I'm glad he's ok. Did this happen in all the snow? Poor guy... I don't know who I feel worse for... him or you. You I think. I know what it's like to be away from your man and not be in contact and worry yourself sick. UGH!\
*hugs*! I'm glad he's okay! It must have been a terrible night for you. I can't even imagine..
I worry myself sick as well when I don't hear from my other half...Especially when he's driving around all the time. *sigh* Vida, I'm not so glad to hear it never gets better!
Aww that's horrible! I can only imagine how bad you've felt or feeling. Nice to still hear that things have turned better. I cross my fingers that he can come to you and stay there up to he's healed.
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