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My Mom is now at peace

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#1 ·
I just got a call from my brother Gary, my Mom passed away a short while ago. I'm so grateful that I was able to spend 3 days with her last week. Did most of my crying on Tuesday, I was so shocked at her condition, and felt so sorry that she was enduring what she was. Wednesday she was a bit better, more coherent and recognized me, knew I was there. I talked to her, showed her some pictures and videos of my horses....'Beautiful!' she said.

Her best day was Thursday, I got to spend about an hour with her before my flight home. She kept saying ' I want to go home!' When I asked her why, she said ' Isn't that where everyone wants to go? Home!'

Before Thursday, it was difficult to touch her because it was painful for her. She had to be given morphine sublingual just to move her or bathe her. That day I rested my hand on her shoulder and rubbed very softly. She told me my touching her felt good, so I started stroking her forehead and brushing my hand over her hair. I felt my heart well up when she said that it 'felt just like Mom' which I believe she was conveying that it reminded her of her own mother's touch. It was very soothing to her, and for that, I am grateful.

I kissed her on the forehead several times, told her I loved her and would see her again soon. And, someday I will. My brother was there with her at the end, saw her draw her last breath. I'm so glad she wasn't alone.
Yes, I'm sad, but I'm hoping that she is finally experiencing some joy and happiness, because she had very little of either in her life. I hope her parents and brother were there to greet her with open arms. I hope she is smiling ♡

I love you, Mom.
 
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Saying I'm sorry for your pain doesn't ever seem like enough. I always wish there was more that I could do.

I am glad that you got a chance to say "see you later" and had that time together and that your brother could be there for both of you. I know that when it is my time to go, I hope to see my children standing side by side, supporting one another, I will know then, that I did a good job in my life.
 
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So glad that you got to see and speak with your mom one last time here, I'm sure that meant a lot to her. It's always so hard to say goodbye to someone that you love but you will see her again. Try to take it easy on yourself. I'm really sorry for your loss.
 
#18 ·
I never know what to say, as when I've had a loss having everyone 'jump' me with their sympathies sometimes made it worse.
I hope that you know that all of us here care for you and want to help and be there for you in any way we can in your time of need.

I will be praying for you to find peace as well. Much love to you, Hombre.
 
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#19 ·
I would like to thank each and every one of you for your sincere and deeply touching condolences. It is a comfort to me that you care. I wish I could reply to each of your comments personally, but my arm injury does not allow it.

I'm doing ok, did my grieving when I was with my Mom. It may hit me later, who knows. I'm just glad she's somewhere beautiful.

Thank you, one and all ♡♡♡
 
#21 ·
Words can't begin to describe the loss of a parent or someone close to you. I'm so sorry--you and your family are in my thoughts, and I certainly hope your mother rests in peace.
Cherish those fond memories you have. I'm so glad you were able to say your goodbyes. If you need anyone to talk to, I'm always just a PM away.
 
#22 ·
My condolences and sympathies to you and your family.
Losing your mom is really tough.
Memories of your last visit to last a lifetime.

A new angel has arrived in heaven.

It is said to see a cardinal is someone you loved and lost visiting to let you know all is well and to check on you....
Watch for that beautiful bird....

Peace to you in this troubling time...

:runninghorse2:..

 
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