Need some advice
Okay, so long story short a friend if mine is currently in rehab. Myself and another friend have been EXTREMELY supportive from the beginning about her getting the help she needs. We have a mutual friend however which has been kind of distant. I can completely understand, its a serious issue and some people just don't handle scenarios like this well....it doesn't make her any less of a friend.
My problem is that she is making REALLY lame excuses for her behavior. We were all supposed to hang out the weekend before our friend went in to treatment, but she had "tons of homework to do" like it was impossible to take one hour to drop by and show her support. Last weekend, we were supposed to visit our friend and not only did she never get back to me despite text messages and Facebook messages, but she told our friend she had to work all day but was on Facebook instead, talking about playing PS3 and obviously not working. This pisses me off a lot, purely because she's lying about it.
My dilemma is whether or not to tell our friend in rehab. She has a long road ahead of her, even after she comes home and I would hate for her to think she has a support network that isn't there.
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