Probably not, I think the reason my nose did that is because she basically had to re-pierce about 8 times in one sitting and was screwing around with the hole a lot trying to get the piercing in..
What happened with your ears though? Are you possibly allergic to certain metals? If that's the case, just get a plastic nose piercing - they are easier to pierce with, cheaper and usually safe for sensitive bodies.
Mine didn't hurt that bad. Made my eyes water and my nose bleed a little bit but nothing terrible. I have no idea bout the glass, plastic metal stuff, but I do know that I prefer the L shaped studs because the straight ones fall out easy and the curved ones are harder to get in and out.