Originally Posted by BluMagic
My dad left us when I was two. K. Last time I talked to him was two years ago after some lady called Mom about him. I don't want to go into detail. Anyways, he called on my bday in August. And he called today!!!! He gave me his email! I miss him so much but I know Mom doesn't like that I love him so much. I can't help it. He was my world. What do I do?
blu I lost my step dad early this year to cancer. I didnt get to tell him all the things I wanted to. The main one was that I love him. That is going to be with me for the rest of my life because all I keep thinking about is whether or not he knew that. Huge regret!!! You will end up with enough regrets in your life...dont let the same thing happen to you. You love your dad and miss him...grab hold of the fact that your dad is still alive and keep a relationship with him
The most important thing in life is to let the people we care about know just how much we care about them before we can't anymore. My biological dad is still alive and while I don't have the same relationship with him as I had with my step dad, I make sure I tell him I love him and make him a part of my life.
You have to do what you have to do and you have to make the decisions in life that you feel are right. Sometimes other people don't always understand but that shouldnt stop us from doing what we know deep down we need to do.
I don't know if I've helped at all but that's my pearl of wisdom for ya ;)