They wouldn't do it at all. One of the people called into me after having the baby and commented that he couldnt wait for me to get back out as it wasn't the same without me! Shoulda thought of that before disrespectin me buddy!
I'm the queen of washing my hands of people.... if they do me wrong, it is up to them to make an effort. If I do something wrong, it is up to me to fix it. I don't have many friends, but it's not about quantity, it's about quality :)
Stop for a minute, open your mind, learn. You may not agree with what I say, I may not agree with what you say but we will both learn something new.