I'm really surprised how many people were engaged(or married) before even a year of dating, I guess it wouldn't have been too far off if we had gotten married when I found out I was pregnant, we were together 1 year and 4 months at that point. A "cousin" of mine(my dad's second wife's neice, he's now divorced but still close with her) I detest the girl, but that's another story. She got pregnant after being with a guy for 4 months and then got married. I had a point to go with that, but I'm sick and now I can't remember lol.
My one friend, Anthony and I went to her first wedding(she got married when out son was a month old). We had been together longer then her and her fiance. She got divorced and back in August we attended her second wedding, She only married him because they had a baby together. She loves him, but she had a lot of second thoughts about marrying him and I think she should have waited. I love my friend dearly, I've known her for about 6/7 years and I just want her to be happy and there were some major warning bells going off and sometimes I really worry about her.
IDK maybe I'm hesitant about marriage too, seems like so many people get divorced, if I never get married I can't get divorced. BUT then again, I already have my wedding dress picked out(and have for years) so what does that tell you