OP check with the adult abuse department in the court jurisdiction where the Ex Parte was ordered..these orders are not taken lightly by the courts and if it is in full affect already...then it has gone beyond the he said..she said phase and has become an actual court order. It can be a felony to go against such an order..just not sure how the same employer plays a roll at all. The adult abuse department can guide you and even perhaps give you a list of attorneys near you who work on a sliding scale basis. Best wishes to you & the person you are trying to assist. Please always remember safety!!
thanks for the advice guys!
Also as She heard he be coming back to work same time she can not ask about him etc. Though I have managed to find out he will be working but on a different shift. So We are cool with that and our employer not going to be silly putting up in one shift lol. She will be contacting the court about some grey areas 2moro.