So see, it was never a choice. You didnt sit at your house one day and say "Hmm. I think I'd like to have a wife one day. Nah, I think guys sound better".
I've been apathetic towards gender from the beginning as well. I had a HUGE crush on Xena Warrior Princess as a kid. And Ozzy. My barbies had girlfriends and ken was having a love affair with...other ken. I didn't even know what gay WAS. But my little queer 5 year old self fit the bill.
So it's not a choice. If it were, you'd be insane to choose the thing that gets you harrassed, beaten up, mistreated, etc. Just like you didnt make a conscious choice to be straight, I never made a conscious choice to be non-straight.
Otherwise, Im sure they would stop being gay to stop the bullying.
Last edited by Spastic_Dove; 10-25-2010 at 12:16 AM.