To start off, my boyfriend, Garrett, has been helping my family out tremendously. We bale our own hay and since my sisters refuse to help with anything, its only me and my mom that picks up the hundreds of square bales. Every time we bale hay he has come over to help, doesn't complain about anything and even cleans our house when I fall asleep (I don't have very good health, so I get really tired easily).
He stays the night at my house for several days usually, as he lives pretty far from me and can't drive here and back every day. He stays in my room, which is in the basement on the opposite side of the house, while I sleep upstairs on the couch with my dad in the same room because he doesn't trust me at all. (I'm the "bad kid" of our family, even though I haven't done anything to earn that)
My older sister throws a fit almost every time he comes over, she honestly acts like a 5 year old, and half the time refuses to come upstairs or be around him at all even though he is nothing but nice to her. She constantly comes up with things to tell my parents to get us in trouble. For example: I was in the shower, which is downstairs next to my room, my mom knew and he was still asleep. I NEVER went into my room, but my sister told my parents that I went in there naked
Then yesterday and the day before, our neighbors helped with hay as we were giving some to them for use at their wedding, the soon to be step dad is very nice, thanked Garrett for helping and several times noted to my parents that they are lucky that I have "such a good man" in his words, but they seemed to shrug it off. But his step kids weren't so nice, they constantly made rude remarks to Garrett, even down to what he was wearing. But only when no one else was around.
My dad even yelled at us once because we stopped for 30 seconds, mind you it is 100 and up outside and very hard work.
I could probobly go on and on, but to sum it up none of my family seems to appreciate anything he does. I've talked to them about it but they don't make any changes. Even though I thank him constantly for everything he does, I don't feel its fair to him to be treated rudely by my family.
If you read all that, I applaud you, if you reply, thanks in advance. I could use some suggestions on how to fix this situation.