What I meant by them not trusting me when he sleeps over, is that my dad stays up as long as possible to watch me sleep.. lol. Just to make sure I don't go down there. I'm not trying to be able to sleep in the same bed as him, I do know I'm not quite an adult yet and I'm not trying to be one, I just feel that my parents hold me back way too much. I don't really do anything at all because of them.
All of you who don't understand why he gets to stay in the first place, I see your point in a way but neither of us would ever do anything inappropriate, we're more responsible than that and if we weren't, and did try something, we would be caught in .2 seconds. Celeste:
He is 17, will be 18 in a few months.. but when I met him he was 16, and they acted the same way. Val:
My parents don't yell at her, sometimes they will ask her to do something but she says no, or she'll say she will and I end up doing it because my parents say that they told me to do it, not her.. She is almost 21, and we support her almost fully and she does nothing to help. Yet she is one of the favorites.. Speed Racer:
They do talk once in a while, but nothing comes out of it. My parents are stubborn..
And they think
that I've done a lot of stuff, but I haven't. A few years ago my ex best friend's dad called them and said I was smoking pot, having sex and lots of other things I can't remember. They believed him. I wasn't even with the people he was talking about.
They also believe everything my sister tells them, which is ALOT of bad stuff. She told them me and bf had sex on several occasions when we had only known each other for a couple months... so they think that I'm a ****, druggy and who knows what else. They believe anybody over me. I never did any of that stuff. (Oh, did I mention I can't be around any type of smoke very long, or I get really sick. And yet somehow I can still smoke pot...
I think they also don't like me much because I'm a lot different than them, I don't have anything in common with them and I'm not very good at school.
A lot of it started when I got sick though, they say its my fault but I don't understand how it is.
They also tell me that they trust me 100%, but won't let me out of their sight. Eg:
Yesterday evening Garrett and I went canoeing in our lake, that is right behind the house and sat on the swings. The only thing they did while we were out there is sit behind the big window we have and watch us.
I understand being checked on.. but its uncomfortable when you always have someone breathing down your neck so to speak.
And prom? Noo way, if I'm going to prom my parents are going with me...